It is often interesting to experience people’s reactions when you mention adult products. Some will come out of a slight state of slumber and become completely alert, whereas others will turn up their nose in disgust.
Please bear in mind that during this discourse I am not attacking anyone, nor is it my intention to offend. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I would love to hear your’s. Even though people may disagree in their views, it does not mean that there cannot be respect between them.
It is the reaction of disgust that I find the most curious. Why do people see sex toys as distasteful, even taboo? We could go one step back and ask the question, why do adults view sex as disgusting? Personally I think we have come a very long way since the Victorian Era when exposing the skin was a no-no, but it seems we have so much further to go.
I guess one of the problems is the escalation in depraved sexual acts and crimes that cause some folks to consider any mention of sex to fear that they will be dragged into someone’s dungeon and flogged in an orgiastic display. Maybe it is the awareness that has been created, and rightly so, of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. But what is this doing to the libido? Anyone who can consider themself human has desires. As much as we need food, water and sunlight, we also need affection, a tender touch and sometimes a rough, kinky smack on the ass.
So what really stops people from experiencing their own desires and pleasures to the full extent of all capabilities? Fear of being exposed to immoral things; fear of their religious convictions and what wrath will come upon them; fear of disease; possibly many other things such as not being able to experience those desires due to a circumstance they find themselves in.
If it is being exposed to things you find immoral maybe start by asking yourself what you find immoral. When I say this I am not asking what the society you live in finds immoral, but you, yourself. We all have a moral and ethical base which is in conjunction with that depicted by society and law. However we also have our own personal opinions and quite often those personal ethics need to really be discovered. What we all tend to do is hide ourselves deep within and more than often we are not prepared to discover that inner self because we find that something within us actually opposes that which other people have set down as the manner in which you should live your life. If I mention the concept of anal sex, what does it do to you? Do you cringe? Do you feel disgust and question how anyone can do this? No problem, a great many people have the same reaction (except those that tried it however). Hmm, let me put a different way.
The design of the human body is perfect (what we do with it is no reflection of the designer) and so we do not question the design and creation of the human body. Most of us are aware that the design of the female body has a very sensitive spot on the front wall of the vagina called the G-spot. When this spot is properly stimulated it can cause heightened orgasm. What most people fail to realise is that the design of the male body, as was developed by the Great Creatrix, God if you prefer, also has a G-spot which is situated on the front wall, inside the anus (also known as the pituitary gland). So in order for a man to experience all of his God-given gifts, why is anal sex so revolting to most? And if you are a woman, well you would need to experience it for yourself in order to understand.
And what about fear of religion and the wrath that lustful thoughts may bring? It is probably better for me to leave this alone as there are so many differing opinions that wars have been started over. However let me ask you a question. Why would your God design an architectural masterpeice and then prevent you from using it? You may suggest that emotions of lust and sexual desire are from the Devil, but the Devil did not create. Is it not possible that you were given these things to use . . . but not abuse. And maybe this is where the line gets drawn, or should be drawn, the abuse of gifts instead of the celebration of them.
Sexually transmitted diseases are obviously a huge problem in this day and age, but how this prevents us from experiencing our sexual love, I will never know. We have preventative methods and two life partners who do not take other partners to the bed chamber would not have to worry about these things. And yet these couples are still frowning upon the mention of anything beyond the stale act of the missionary position.
And of course you may have a medical condition that prevents you from enjoying your sexuality to the fullest. In such a case maybe speak to a medical practitioner and find out your options. There are more ways than one to enjoy the pleasures of the body and love making.
If you are ready to experiment and your partner is not, well, be patient, talk about it on occasion, but also make it clear that this or that is something that you would like to try with him or her, but that you are not pushing your partner into a decision. And if they really have a problem with it then respect that and move on. They might enjoy something that is equally as pleasurable for both of you. It is better to have a partner that is enjoying themselves as much as you are than having a reluctant bystander.
There’s obviously a lot that I haven’t covered here, but what is your opinion?
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different names, depending on the manufacturer. The ring with the small hole slips over the penis and is moved down to the base of the shaft. If you can’t tell from the small image, the rubber is split from the hole outward so that the penis is held tight by the ring. A vibrating glans is placed into the studded front which is controlled from the remote. The man simply fits the ring around the base of his cock and lies back with the glans pointing upward to the stomach. The woman then sits on him in a woman on top position and inserts the man’s cock into her wonderful pussy, the studded glans resting on her clitoris, and then it switched on. The effect is a strong vibration on the clitoris and the cock at the same time whilst the woman rides the man into thrilling ecstasy.
